In this blog, “we” refers broadly to society.
In 2016 police officers posted photos on social media of two adults who were unconscious from a non-fatal opioid overdose in the front seat of their vehicle with the woman’s four-year-old grandson in the back seat (the four-year-old’s grandmother had been caring for him because of his parents’ own substance use disorders).[1]
Anger and outrage are common and understandable responses toward the adults. At the same time, we feel both heartache and compassion toward the child.
There are a few questions these photos raise for me:
- How were the police officers impacted when they came across this scene, especially considering the cumulative effects of what they are exposed to in their profession?
- How did the viral social media post and subsequent media coverage impact the two adults?
But the biggest question I have been preoccupied with is “when will we lose compassion and understanding for the four-year-old?” Posed another way, “when will anger and outrage replace the compassion we feel towards him now?”
With the myriad of genetic and environmental risk factors enveloping this 4-year-old, it will not be surprising if one day he moves to the front seat, with another child replacing him in the back seat (note to reader: do not limit the variety of ways this dynamic could manifest in the future). If this happens, I imagine he will be viewed similarly to the two adults in the photos. And I find this interesting. Interesting that there is a line and when that line is crossed, we lose the ability to see the four-year-old in the back seat. These blind spots impact policies and practices.
What will the next 30 years be like for the four-year-old in this photo or for the other 2.2 million children who are estimated to have been impacted by the latest opioid crisis.[2] What is being done for them? If we fail to make their needs a priority today, are we not ourselves contributing to the conditions that end with outrage around a social media post of active addiction?
[1] (2016). The awful life of the boy in the ‘heroin overdose’ photo taken by US police. https://www.stuff.co.nz/world/americas/84293750/the-awful-life-of-the-boy-in-heroin-overdose-photo-taken-by-us-police; Siemaszko, C. (2016). Woman in Viral Heroin Overdose Photo Sentenced, NBC News, September 15, 2016 https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/grandma-shocking-ohio-heroin-picture-sentenced-jail-n648946
[2] Brundage, S. C., Fitfield, A., & Partridge, L. (2019). The Ripple Effect: National and State Estimates of the U.S. Opioid Epidemic’s Impact on Children. United Hospital Fund, New York, NY.
Well said Chris – I often wonder the same thing.
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This is such a good and important question: “But the biggest question I have been preoccupied with is ‘when will we lose compassion and understanding for the four-year-old?'”
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Chris, there is no doubt in my mind that the only way that all three people in your example live a healthier life is through treatment and compassion. Jails and institutions will not solve anything, punishment will not make anyone better.
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