Betty Ford

Alix at The Second Road gives us a heads up about a PBS show on Betty Ford.

Here’s Bill White’s salute to her from a couple of years ago:

In the decades following the repeal of Prohibition, American women faced a unique cultural double bind. They were targeted for unrelenting product promotion by the alcohol, tobacco, and pharmaceutical industries at the same time social stigma increased for addicted women. Only a few women of prominence (e.g., public health pioneer Marty Mann and actresses Lillian Roth and Mercedes McCambridge) braved such stigma to publicly acknowledge their recoveries from alcoholism, while women struggling with narcotic addiction, such as jazz singer Billie Holiday, broke into public visibility only when they were arrested or died.

In such a climate, unknown numbers of women lost their dreams and their lives to alcoholism and other addictions. Many sought help only in the latest stages of their illnesses, with many dying early in their recoveries as a result of medical disorders spawned from prolonged years of secret addiction to alcohol and other drugs. It could justifiably be claimed that these women died not from addiction, but from stigma.

Recovery advocates during the mid-20th century dreamed of a day when a woman of unprecedented prominence would go public with her recovery story and by doing so forever shatter America’s stereotype of the alcoholic as a depraved skid row wino. That dream was about to come true in a way that would forever demarcate “before and after” in the history of addiction and recovery among American women.

Courageous announcement

In April 1978, former President and First Lady Gerald and Betty Ford announced to the nation that Mrs. Ford had sought treatment and was recovering from addiction to alcohol and other drugs. That moment stands as the height of destigmatization of alcohol and other drug problems in America. Here stood one of the most prestigious women in the United States and, at a more personal level, a woman deeply respected and revered by the American public for her independence, spunk, and candor. We had sensed earlier as a citizenry that this was a woman who cared about us and would tell us the truth. She had demonstrated those traits by openly sharing her battle with breast cancer and using that experience to educate us as a nation. And here she was again standing with her husband and family talking to us about recovery from alcoholism and drug dependence.

In doing so, Betty Ford and her family, as they had done before, found a way to elevate their personal crises to a higher level of meaning and purpose. In 1978, Betty Ford did for alcoholism what a few years later a famous actor, a beloved professional athlete, and a brave young boy would do for AIDS. She put a face on alcohol and drug dependency that shattered the public stereotype of the alcoholic and in that moment brought us all a step closer to telling the truth about how these problems had touched our own lives.

The manner in which Mrs. Ford initiated her recovery process was also significant in that it challenged the popular notion that nothing could be done to stop addiction until the person who was addicted had personally hit bottom and reached out for help. News that Betty Ford’s daughter, Susan Ford, had initiated a formal family intervention process that resulted in Mrs. Ford’s admission to treatment and opened the doorway to her recovery conveyed three crucial lessons to the nation: 1) There is hope for families facing addiction; 2) The family can play a catalytic role in the recovery process; and 3) Individual family members and the family as a whole need to recover from the effects of addiction. Mrs. Ford, President Ford, and Susan and the other Ford children offered themselves as living proof of those propositions.